A Word of Advice to you and to myself

If a boy brings down your mood and you think that he is the perfect person despite all of that. Wrong. DROP HIM.

Thanks for reading,

Karen V.


Taylor Swift: What is going on?!

Okay, so first I’m going to be very honest. I’m not completely wrapped into her life and don’t listen much to her songs. Like I’m not even a real T-Swift fan, I only listen to her singles!! BUT, and it’s a real big but, I’m not mad about the new music she’s been releasing.

I get it. I have a feeling that she might have snapped, especially with the amount of shade that she threw in her new music video.




Obviously there is so much more shade in this video that there is no sun shining ANYWHERE.

Once again, not wrapped into her life and still highly think she snapped. But before anyone gets super mad or annoyed about “another Taylor hater post,” her new song “…Ready For It?,” is SOOOOOO GOOOODDD!!

It honestly makes me feel like I want to run and/or punch something. It’s something I can listen to while working out and it has a really good beat and I feel so pumped. Once again, I want to punch something and I feel like I can do anything. It’s a whole different vibe from what her other songs in past have been. But I should’ve realized there would’ve been a new Taylor sound since her song “Look What You Made Me Do” came out. After a few times of listening to it, I still didn’t enjoy it. But this song redeems it for me.

Let me know what you think about her new song. Also, if you have any new music you’re currently listening to go ahead and tell me what it is. I’m in need of new songs to listen to on my drives to work. Please and thanks.

Thanks for reading!!!

*Also if you already know this, I might as well say it, obviously I’m not a professional music reviewer and I just listened to her new song literally 2 minutes ago and I wanted to write something about it. Please don’t hate me. Okay BYE ❤ ❤ ❤ still love me! 

Karen V.

PCSD: what is it and why am I talking about it

Hi everyone! 

You’re probably wondering what PCSD is, well, it’s Post Commencement Stress Disorder. Coming from a website (that might or might not be validated), here’s the definition: “a condition emerging from a diagnosis of symptoms affecting new graduates facing the task of choosing, changing or pursuing a career beyond the protective bubble provided by the traditional college campus and now amplified by the variety of different approaches to graduation and commencement that are evolving. Anxiety and stress result from experiencing a mixture of excitement and fear of the unknown. Completing a degree brings both opportunity and insecurity to many new graduates as they pursue a vision and career. The diverse types and venues of commencements have been growing and changing and the frequency and nature of PCSD has not been sufficiently studied and incidents and occurrences’ have been under reported.”

So if you just scrolled past all of that because there were so many words in a short sitting, or if you’re like me who has a short attention span (30% of the time), it’s basically a lot of stress because you have no idea what the fuck you’re doing since graduating college. 

That’s currently me. Like I literally have no fucking clue what I’m doing in my life right now. 

And THAT STRESSES ME OUT! I feel like I’m always internally screaming, while maintaining a calm exposure. 

If you’re currently saying “same” in your head then great! At least I’m not alone! 

So why the reason for this post? Well, I saw one of my friends posting a status on Facebook about this and it gave me an answer (not really) as to why I’ve been so frustrated and stress the last couple of months. 

Like not knowing “what’s next” is something I don’t like knowing. It’s also probably because I just want to be in a stable financial income bracket while being in a career I want to be in but can’t because I need whatever years for an entry level and blah blah blah…. 

I bet you’re probably thinking, “Karen you need to be patient and time will come.” Literally what my mom says but in a loud Spanish voice where she sounds mad but really just talking normally. She also says “todo va a salir bien, mija.” And THEN continues to get mad at me but once again normally talking to me. ( I love her) 

So maybe I’m in a rush and just want to be in the “now we here” part from the wise and iconic phrase, “started from the bottom, now we here.” Thanks Drake. 

Here’s hoping for that time to come (soon) and maybe stop stressing and just live my life and look at photos of Jake Gyllenhaal. 

Thanks for reading!!!!! 

Karen V. 

Can’t We all be Nice?

During these trying times, can we just go back to where things were semi-moderately decent and people didn’t get offended out of every little thing and people were nice to one another?

Sometimes we can all be pieces of trash but why can’t we all be nice pieces of trash together and commonly support than constantly tear down one another. Like we are all trying to get through life and be at a point where we can financially support ourselves and just live a good life. I bet you’re saying “But Karen, this isn’t Mean Girls, like you don’t even go here!” or “God Karen, you’re so stupid.” Okay, maybe you weren’t thinking that but I definitely feel a little like that girl from Mean Girls who’s just crying and talking about her feelings and wanting to go back to middle school and bake a cake filled with rainbows and smiles and blah blah blah.. you get it. I think we’re all in a weird phase in our lives that we just need to be there for each other.

I have no idea why but I feel like this “being nice” concept has somehow strayed away from all of us and it’s now everyone for themselves. I’m not saying that it’s a bad concept because it’s good to be selfish once in a while but don’t make it to where you’re putting people down as you’re rising to the top. As the once prophetic and ancient wise hero once said “Sit down, be humble.”

So basically, the point of this whole post is to hopefully have you think twice before being mean to another person. Once again let’s make the world a perfect place or at least try.


Thanks for reading!!